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In Memory Of
Michael Jon Hospodar
1988 - 2003
Full NameMichael Jon Hospodar
Born11th July 1988
Passed Away12th January 2003
Age
14 Years

The Day We Got The News

signed byLexi Hospodar 1/7/04
I once had a brother who loved to drink coke everyday I once had a brother who could laugh the town away But one day it all changed when we found out the news: My brother was dying, then all day he snoozed. I had to be quiet or else he would wake. And all over the house were pills and heartache. I once had a brother that could swim in the pool I once had a brother that wend to Jr. High School But as he got sicker he had to lay off, he stayed home on the couch and he slept while he coughed. I tried to understand like a good sister should do but I had my own stuff that I wanted to do. I stayed home with my mom and did my best to help I mostly hugged him a lot while he screamed and he yelped He screamed lots of bad things and through his pills at the door But I couldn't give up he wasn't just another chore When the time came for me to say good-by we had such a great time, but it was so hard not to cry As more time had passed he was preparing to go he got weaker and weaker and it started to show No one wanted to believe that he would go so soon, and I felt like going inside my own special cacoon I once had a brother that could stand up and walk I once had a brother that would answer back when we talked But that has all changed now; we've laid him to rest My brother suffered and died from a disease called CF
10 Apr 2008

I Am

signed byBy Lexi Hospodar - 6/2002
I am a caring sister who loves her brother a lot I wonder how he feels to be sick all the time I hear what he always says " How Long ago was 1999?" I see hin walking around not being sick I want him to not have a disease anymore I am a caring sister who loves her brother a lot I pretend I have a brother who is not sick I feel his worries of death I touch his most hurtful worries I worry that he will die soon I cry that he is sick I an a caring sister who loves her brother a lot I understand that he doesn't feel good I pray that he will survive this year I dream that he is in heaven I try to be patient when he yells at me I am a caring sister who loves her brother a lot
10 Apr 2008
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PN
31 Mar 2019

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends of Michael. May the God of all comfort and tender mercies give you the needed strength to endure this very difficult time. 2 Corinthians 1: 3-4

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Janice Anderson
06 Dec 2015

Dear Tammy, This is Janice Anderson, Ventura County Chapter of The Compassionate Friends. I'm trying to reach you to confirm if you will be attending our sacred Dec. 13, 2015 Worldwide Candle Lighting at Ascension Lutheran Church in Thousand Oaks. I hope you will contact me by email [email protected] confirming you will be attending to honor the memory of your precious Michael.